I never planned on becoming a “swim mom” but my daughter had other plans. She played rec league soccer and was a good goalie but quit early on because she said, “Mom, I get too sweaty.” I thought that was the end of her sports participation because I couldn’t think of a sport where you DON’T get sweaty. And in addition, she wasn’t very coordinated. Anna was the kid that tripped over lint in the carpet. Literally.
But she always loved the water. When Anna turned seven she decided to join our summer rec swim team, mainly because her friends were doing it. And that was my initiation into the culture of swimming. Swim meets are different from other sports competitions in that it is not a “drop off” experience. Rec league meets require LOTS of parents volunteering—timers, starters, place judges, scorers --you name it, it’s done by a parent. And I was that parent. At the end of the season she won the “most improved” award for her age group. With hindsight I believe it was a testament to her hard work.
Fast forward to middle school. Anna was still swimming on our summer team but the stress of 6th grade was taking a toll on her. She had high expectations of herself and no way to release her anxiety. She was a walking ball of stress. She would do cartwheels and handsprings until 10 or 11 pm every night trying to burn off her anxiety. In desperation, I found a fall rec swim league through our city that her friends were also joining. The pool was close, the price was right ($60 for 8 weeks) and it was a good middle step between summer rec and a full year-round program. Her coach was a former college swimmer who had all kinds of creative workouts and worked the kids really hard. At the end of every practice my anxious, tense daughter would be tired, relaxed, and happy. Swimming was her “miracle drug.”
I couldn’t say no to something that made her so happy. And as an athlete myself I knew all the benefits of training and competition—camaraderie, friendships, challenging yourself, making a commitment and sticking with it, dealing with disappointment, taking care of your body and honoring its strength and power.
Thanks to Anna there are damp towels and swim suits all over my house and my car proudly sports the “swim mom” magnet. I wouldn’t change a thing.
|Chest||26-28 in||28-30 in||30-32 in||32-34 in||34-36 in|
|Waist||23-24 in||24-25 in||25-26 in||26-27 in||28-29 in|
|Hips||29-30 in||30-32 in||32-34 in||34-36 in||36-38 in|
|Height||48-54 in||51-58 in||58-63 in||61-65 in||63-70 in|
HEIGHT: Stand up straight against a wall (no shoes!) and measure from floor to top of head
CHEST: Lift arms slightly, wrapping tape across back and underarms at the fullest part of the chest - making sure tape is parallel to floor
WAIST: Wrap tape around smallest part of waist, keeping it parallel to the floor
HIPS: Standing straight, measure the fullest part of the hips, keeping tape level
AGE: At Dragonwing®, we know girls of every age come in every size so we don’t use an age guideline